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Forum: Coping and Support

For patients and families, about support, coping strategies, the grieving process and faith. Moderators: sheila, irish

  1. Sticky Thread Sticky: Counseling/therapy

    Just an FYI not to dismiss this, despite the stigma that is still attached to it. If you need to unload or are having a hard time figuring this all...

    Started by Joe7, 12-28-2011 07:34 PM
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  2. Sticky Thread Sticky: "Negotiating" with Cancer

    I've been doing a lot of thinking about how I think about this whole cancer thing. The posts on this site are immensly valuable in helping to "sort"...

    Started by NatalieC, 11-08-2012 09:45 PM
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  1. Hiding the truth requires a lot of energy

    It can be emotionally, spiritually, and even physically taxing to convince yourself an issue doesn't exist or will resolve itself on its own. Think...

    Started by ladyjay91, Today 02:23 PM
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  2. Internment for Hubby was today. Feeling lost.

    Hi, We buried hubby today. I`m sad. Ìt seems more final somehow. I didn`t realize that it hadn`t sunk in that he will not be coming back,...

    Started by Queensville, 05-18-2013 10:03 PM
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    Yesterday 08:20 PM Go to last post
  3. Caring for the Caregiver

    http://www.oncologynurseadvisor.com/caring-for-the-caregiver/article/219206/ Caring for the Caregiver Although researchers have long known...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-15-2013 06:23 PM
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  4. In a year & 1/2 our lives have been turned upside down & I'm trying to hang on

    Our 2 years together, November 2011 George was very sick out of the blue and went to visit Veterans Hospital, on several different occasions they...

    Started by ladyjay91, Yesterday 08:05 PM
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  5. Cancer, the Ultimate Test of Friendship

    Cancer, the Ultimate Test of Friendship Being diagnosed with cancer separates our friends from pretenders cancer provides a litmus test for...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 01-03-2013 03:10 AM
    • Replies: 6
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    05-19-2013 05:35 AM Go to last post
  6. Unhappy Recommendatons-

    A few months ago, we lost my sister suddenly to colon cancer. She had battled Crohn's disease for many years, and felt she was in remission from...

    Started by Klondike, 05-15-2013 09:58 PM
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    05-17-2013 05:18 AM Go to last post
  7. Lost my partner

    I lost my partner to cancer 2 weeks ago. He was only 59, and I'm 37. We had been inseparable for the past 4 years. After he was diagnosed 11 months...

    Started by umbdude, 05-15-2013 09:00 PM
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    05-17-2013 03:08 AM Go to last post
  8. Getting Married

    Hello, I need some help, some support. My now fiancé (I have been dating him for 10 years, I am 27) was diagnosed with a brain tumour in 2011 (an...

    Started by blueskies12, 05-07-2013 09:16 AM
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    05-15-2013 08:37 PM Go to last post
  9. Diagnosis one year ago today.

    My mom was diagnosed with locally advanced pancreatic cancer one year ago today...on my daughter's sixth birthday. Today she is seven and preparing...

    Started by Soshayna, 05-14-2013 12:34 PM
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    05-15-2013 01:59 AM Go to last post
  10. It's been 20 months and it still haunts me..

    Hi all, I lost my dad to lung cancer in August 2011 after fighting for a year, I was 18 at the time and frankly I am struggling to get over the...

    Started by IWat, 04-12-2013 11:23 PM
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    05-12-2013 02:09 PM Go to last post
  11. Small Tips that made OUR journey afterwards a little easier

    Hi Everyone, This cancer thing is not easy, but neither is living after our loved one passes. I want to live and be happy. I know this. But I...

    Started by Queensville, 04-18-2013 02:25 PM
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  12. my mom

    hello guys. i was here 6-7 months ago for my mom's cervical cancer..just to get facts and support. all that time i was driving mom from one doctor to...

    Started by alvin, 05-06-2013 12:38 AM
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    05-06-2013 03:47 PM Go to last post
  13. Carry On

    I have the picture of my grandfather in his ww1 still on my fridge. His strength has helped me through this. It has been just over month since...

    Started by Queensville, 04-18-2013 01:08 AM
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    04-29-2013 08:52 PM Go to last post
  14. Scared, Worried, Frustrated-Breast Cancer

    So I'm only 18, and I've had breast cancer three times. It started when I was 14. I had a cancerous tumor that was 12 cm in diameter, rather huge. At...

    Started by survivor12, 04-26-2013 02:14 AM
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    04-26-2013 03:31 PM Go to last post
  15. confused and scared

    my mum has terminal cancer and hasnt got long left, i know i should see her everyday but i really cannot cope being there, seeing her so ill. she has...

    Started by pj_593, 04-20-2013 12:39 AM
    • Replies: 3
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    04-20-2013 10:45 PM Go to last post
  16. My Dad has esophagus cancer - weeks to live - my story so far

    My dad is 63 and two months ago was diagnosed with esophagus cancer. The cancer had already had spread to his liver and his stomach by the time we...

    Started by eblackaby, 04-15-2013 11:02 AM
    • Replies: 2
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    04-17-2013 09:59 PM Go to last post
  17. Unhappy Mom’s Gone

    My wonderful Mother passed away this morning. My world is literally shattered and empty without her now and I cannot begin to describe the incredible...

    Started by Greer, 12-02-2011 02:28 AM
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    04-17-2013 08:27 AM Go to last post
  18. How to do Something Special

    Hello, I have a good friend who has recently had to drop out of school because his father is fighting cancer. The cancer is very aggressive and has...

    Started by e.starr, 04-15-2013 01:28 AM
    • Replies: 3
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    04-15-2013 03:13 AM Go to last post
  19. Does it get easier?

    My dad passed away from lung cancer the day after Christmas, and for a few weeks after I felt surprisingly normal. I think it was a reprieve from the...

    Started by mdtrott, 02-14-2013 02:29 AM
    • Replies: 6
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    04-12-2013 05:47 PM Go to last post
  20. I'm falling apart, my life is in a downward spirl.

    My wife of 15 years has Breast Cancer. She was diagnosed in February of 2010. She has Her2neu which is a difficult one to control. For the past 17...

    Started by Humbled1, 10-05-2011 06:26 AM
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    04-12-2013 03:35 AM Go to last post
  21. How to cope with mother’s advanced cancer?

    Hello everyone, I just joined your group. My mother was diagnosed with head and neck cancer and had a successful operation in August 2012. (followed...

    Started by Denise Y., 04-10-2013 06:56 PM
    • Replies: 1
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    04-11-2013 03:27 PM Go to last post
  22. Dear cancer...You suck...that is all

    Ever been so tired down to your very bones?! That's where I am right now and this stupid insomnia is only making it harder. I hope that I don't...

    Started by cjcapps, 02-22-2013 08:43 AM
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    04-07-2013 02:48 PM Go to last post
  23. Boyfriend's mother diagnosed with lung cancer, please help.

    Hi everyone. This is my first post here and I'm desperate for some help. I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months. He and I are as...

    Started by meesapanda, 04-06-2013 03:26 PM
    • Replies: 1
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    04-06-2013 04:42 PM Go to last post
  24. Mom is a pancreatic cancer survivor

    Hi everybody, I registered to the site because I'm not quite sure how to handle Mom. She is 67 years old and is coming up on her 5 year mark since...

    Started by TexanRick, 03-29-2013 03:30 AM
    • Replies: 1
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    04-06-2013 12:39 AM Go to last post
  25. 25 year old cancer patient.

    This is difficult, since my cancer is rare and probably not curable, though it is claimed to be. Primary central nervous system lymphoma,...

    Started by ScienceGuy, 03-26-2013 09:01 PM
    • Replies: 1
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    03-26-2013 11:58 PM Go to last post
  26. My turn

    So, I think I've been hanging in there alright for the most part. But, tonight is one of those nights where I need words of encouragement. Someone...

    Started by DebbieC, 03-21-2013 03:47 AM
    • Replies: 7
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    03-22-2013 01:59 AM Go to last post
  27. On being a "caregiver"

    Have been trying to do this for my girlfriend (to one extent or other) the last few years. Any thoughts from those who either have done this or had...

    Started by Joe7, 01-23-2011 02:11 AM
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    03-20-2013 04:50 PM Go to last post
  28. Am I handling this right?

    Hi everyone, My dad was diagnosed in the fall with terminal lung cancer. I have a 7 month old daughter and she is the light of my dads life. I...

    Started by corils1, 03-12-2013 08:44 PM
    • Replies: 2
    • Views: 402
    03-13-2013 01:10 AM Go to last post
  29. Father with lung cancer

    Hi, Not posted on one of these sites before and not sure if I am looking to vent or to get advice but here goes. Found out last night that my...

    Started by Robyns, 03-12-2013 11:06 AM
    • Replies: 3
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    03-12-2013 09:38 PM Go to last post
  30. Wink Am I being reasonable?

    Hi, I would like to connect with people who are going through cancer, like me. No one understands what I'm going through. I want to talk to someone...

    Started by snoopy, 12-01-2012 05:31 AM
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  31. Mom with weeks to live..husband opposite of supportive

    I'm deleting my original post. I posted it because I wanted advice and I got some great advice from some very caring people. Thank you.

    Started by Laurenleigh1313, 01-27-2013 02:38 PM
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    03-02-2013 07:55 PM Go to last post
  32. coping with wifes cancer history

    Hi all thanks for taking the time to have a read. Iv just turned 30 and having quite a hard time wife my wifes history of cancer. We were only...

    Started by James30, 02-25-2013 11:33 PM
    • Replies: 1
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    02-26-2013 03:21 PM Go to last post
  33. 25 Stage II Renal-how to cope?

    Hello, I am a 25 year old accountant from KS. I found out yesterday I have stage 2 kidney cancer. The plan is to remove my right kidney. My...

    Started by goshox, 02-19-2013 01:57 AM
    • Replies: 1
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    02-19-2013 04:28 AM Go to last post
  34. End-of-life care often still hectic, aggressive

    Hi Researchers led by Dr. Joan Teno at Warren Alpert Medical School of Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island reviewed Medicare claims ...

    Started by ChemoMan, 02-17-2013 01:30 AM
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    02-17-2013 01:30 AM Go to last post
  35. young adult cancer support organization offers a network of support services

    http://www.ulmanfund.org/Cancer-Support.aspx The Ulman Cancer Fund for Young Adults Young adults exude boundless optimism, idealism, and a sense...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-17-2013 12:29 AM
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    02-17-2013 12:29 AM Go to last post
  36. Venting

    through the deepest sorrow I found this forum where I can share my story with others and seek comfort and love, I find out a couple of days ago that...

    Started by serenity78, 02-12-2013 01:13 AM
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    02-16-2013 09:53 PM Go to last post
  37. What all cancer caregivers sing from their hearts to those there caring for

    What all cancer caregivers sing from their hearts to those there caring for Song performed live by Neil Diamond 1970 "He Ain't Heavy, He's My...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-16-2013 05:27 AM
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    02-16-2013 05:27 AM Go to last post
  38. Patient preferences are the ideal guidelines for providing effective palliative care

    http://www.oncologynurseadvisor.com/patient-preferences-are-the-ideal-guidelines-for-providing-effective-palliative-care/article/258079/ FOCUS ON...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-15-2013 08:05 PM
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    02-15-2013 08:05 PM Go to last post
  39. Losing my Mum

    Hi all, I see this looks like a good place to chat about things. My names Danielle, I'm 22 and from New Zealand. My Mum at 46, 47 in November...

    Started by D4ni3ll3, 08-13-2008 01:28 AM
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    02-13-2013 02:11 AM Go to last post
  40. Unhappy I feel so alone...

    Well my father got diagnosed with Prostate Cancer November 5, 2012. They told him it was so far along,there is nothing they can do for him.. That...

    Started by Jennah_1D, 02-07-2013 06:00 AM
    • Replies: 7
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    02-09-2013 07:01 AM Go to last post
  41. Question Mom died 3 months ago and dad is dating

    We lost our mom 3 months ago to primary liver cancer. I am 43 years old, my parents were married 44 years. They were happy and my dad adored my mom....

    Started by soehls, 02-07-2013 05:09 AM
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    02-08-2013 05:40 PM Go to last post
  42. Patient Advocate Foundation. Valuable site of patient support, services, resources

    Patient Advocate Foundation http://www.patientadvocate.org/NURD/index2.php?application=underinsured http://www.patientadvocate.org/index.php ...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-07-2013 02:27 AM
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  43. What would you do, need advise on Father dying of cancer...

    Very sadly my Father is finally loosing his battle with cancer. He's been given a couple of weeks to live. The thing though is that he doesn't...

    Started by Ladydi, 07-01-2008 12:56 PM
    • Replies: 8
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    02-06-2013 10:54 PM Go to last post
  44. Shift to Hospice Care Often Comes Too Late, Study Finds

    http://healthyliving.msn.com/diseases/caregiving/shift-to-hospice-care-often-comes-too-late-study-finds?ocid=vt_twmsnhlt TUESDAY, Feb. 5...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-06-2013 03:33 PM
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    • Views: 314
    02-06-2013 08:34 PM Go to last post
  45. Depression Resources

    American Psychosocial Oncology Society 866-276-7443 apos-society.org AFFILIATE ORGANIZATIONS Youll see 14 listings with summary and links...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-06-2013 05:06 AM
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    02-06-2013 05:06 AM Go to last post
  46. Coping ideas for 14 year old girl (leukemia returned)

    Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! My friend's daughter has been diagnosed with leukemia for the second time; She's 14, and in 8th grade....

    Started by Confidinme, 01-20-2013 12:33 PM
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    02-04-2013 06:06 PM Go to last post
  47. How to say goodbye

    I just found out that a good friend of mine, who has been fighting cancer for several years, doesn't have long to live. My wife and I live in a...

    Started by Mattmurphy, 12-29-2012 12:05 AM
    • Replies: 4
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    02-04-2013 04:30 PM Go to last post
  48. Mother given 3 weeks to live ...

    Hello everyone just wanted to explain my situation... My mother took ill a month ago, our GP diagnosed her with a chest infection, after 3...

    Started by david291, 12-17-2010 08:45 PM
    • Replies: 12
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    02-04-2013 04:15 PM Go to last post
  49. Father told to look into Hospice

    It's been a while since i've posted (might have even been a different site now that I think about it). My dad has terminal Liver cancer that we found...

    Started by summersangel, 11-27-2012 01:16 AM
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    02-04-2013 05:49 AM Go to last post
  50. The Human Spirit

    Having spent 27 years as a type 1 diabetic including all of the around the clock risks and demands, open heart triple bypass surgery, recipient of...

    Started by heartofsoul1, 02-03-2013 04:05 PM
    • Replies: 0
    • Views: 302
    02-03-2013 04:05 PM Go to last post

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