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mcouture
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 Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 8:34 pm Post subject: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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3 weeks ago my mom noticed dad was "acting funny". He was acting "slow", he had trouble answering questions when he wasn't looking at her. He 'got lost' leaving an appointment at an office building. Then he got lost while driving. This all happened in a week or 2.
Last week he had his CAT scan which showed 3, maybe 4 masses. He was put in steroids and sent home with mom.
After a few days I went and visited them (they live a couple hundred miles away). I noticed him to be really "out-of-sorts". Crying one minute, happy the next, confused next, then fine then getting up to go to the bathroom and getting lost in the kitchen.
Now it is 2 weeks into finding out about the 4 "masses" and his cognitive is really bad...he's really confused.
The biopsy is tomorrow morning and they are in a hotel and he is all out of sorts. I don't know what to do, I will be going to help mom on Saturday when they discharge him. In his current state I feel mom should have some help but I don't know what or how.
I want to say given his confused state that the biopsy surgery may send him into a worse confused state. Would that prompt them to keep him longer than "overnight"? I'm just concerned and confused.
Oh BTW, my dad is 68 and a disabled Vietnam Vet, he was strong and "ok" until about a month ago(in hind sight).
Any tips or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.... |
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brainman
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| Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 9:19 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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mcouture, I am so sorry to hear that your father could have brain cancer. Are they really telling you that the biopsy is just an over night thing? I did not stay long but I did stay 5 days following the biopsy. But I was having uncontrolled seizures. As for your father, it just depends on how he does post biopsy.
As for his cognition problem, how much improvement you can expect after the biopsy is minor since the will not remove all of the cancer... just a sample to make sure that it is indeed a cancer and to stage it.
If your father indeed has four separate tumors, that does not sound like a primary brain cancer. Most primary brain cancers do not metastasize... not even to other parts of the brain. If he has four separate tumors, they may be metastatic growth of a cancer somewhere else in his body. If I were you, I would clarify the issue of how many and is their a bridge that connect them.
You and especially your father are in my thoughts and prayers.
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mcouture
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| Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 11:49 am Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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Well my dad had his biopsy. Pathology says they got "something" but won't (or couldn't) tell us what. They are saying results within the week.
Dad seems to be doing 'ok'. He is still as confused as ever.
In all of this I have a question for anyone here.....
My dad's first MRI was July 14th and then 3 CAT scans on July 16th.
On July 30th he saw his primary care doctor for review/status.
July 31st was the biopsy.
I saw my dad in May, talked with him a few times on the phone since then. I then visited him on July 23rd and noticed a remarkable change in his cognitive functions. Due to work/life I haven't visited him since but he can't hold a conversation over the phone anymore and from what mom says he is going downhill fast. I going to visit for a couple days starting tonight.
Sorry for the long-winded second post here.....
My question is is this a normal schedule from the part of the healthcare community? It will be 3 weeks before any true diagnosis and to date there is no support system helping my mom. The only thing they have done was schedule tests and give him steroids.
This feels painfully slow in process and in the meantime my dad went from normal functioning person to a 5 year old who cannot bath or dress himself without guidance. |
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| Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 12:36 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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brainman - thanks for the info. sounds like we're on the same flight-plan (about 3 weeks to diagnosis).
...will post more info here when I know more.... |
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| Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:15 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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Just got the word today.
Dad has: anaplastic astrocytoma, stage 3
We're meeting with radiology on Monday. Anyone with similar? |
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| Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 6:17 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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Hi mcouture, I am glad that you have more information now. Mine cancer is a grade III as well but it is an Olygodendroglioma. I had surgery in 2005 followed by steriotacktic radiation.
The exact treatment option for your father will depend on the tumors size and exact location. If possible, I could strongly consider surgery... possibly with some chemotherapy first... followed by radiation to the tumor bed to kill any remaining cancer cells. Of course, as I said, his options will depend on the size and location.
Did they confirm 4 separate tumors? If that is the case, that would pretty much rule out all that I said. The only option will be chemotherapy. The gold standard these days is Temodar (generic name Temozolomide).
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mcouture
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| Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 8:19 am Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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I'm getting more info slowly but surely on this....
yes, confirmed 4 tumors
apparently the neurosurgeon told him that surgery is not an option. Radiation only.
recap of deficits are:
generally weak
forgetful
gets lost inside the house
right side much lost mobility
So the million dollar question is what will radiation only buy? and what would a prognosis be with this type of treatment. How long would we be able to keep him 'home' until he worsens enough to be hospitalized or will that even happen?
So many questions so little time to take it all in..... |
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| Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 9:13 am Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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What the radiation will get him really depends on the grade of the cancer. I assume that since he has 4 tumors that he will receive whole brain radiation. Whole brain radiation does have a higher risk of damaging healthy brain cells. The exact response your father will have depends on how many and what area of healthy cells are most affected.
How much time and quality of life WBR will give him also depends on the grade. If it is a low grade (I-III) he is looking at a few more years. Higher than a III maybe a few more months. It really is hard to tell. What I often tell people about a prognosis is that it is an educated guess. I do like to know my prognosis but only in order to set some realistic goals for whatever time I have left. After that, I just try to live one day at a time working to achieve those goals. When my father was dying, all that his goal could be were very limited ones. I would ask him each day: "What would you like to do today?" Then I would help him try to do those things. Sometimes it was a simple as writing an email to a friend of his. I used to think of myself as his personal dream factory  . I like to think that I helped bring some degree of quality of live to his remaining days.
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1992 Astrocytoma grade 2, left motor strip
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My Story Part 2: http://cancerforums.net/viewtopic.php?p=7350
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| Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2009 4:23 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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update -
external beam radiation and chemo (timodar) will be the course of action.
The 4 tumors are most likely 1 tumor pictured at just the right cross-section to 'look' like 4 tumors. The tumor is large, deep and diffuse, mostly on the left side but crossing over to the right. It doesn't light up on the MRI(like a stage 4 tumor would) but does have some stage 4 qualities. They are still calling it a stage 3 though....
Prognosis is 1 - 2 or 1 - 3 years. |
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| Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 12:08 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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mcouture,
First and foremost, know that your Dad, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Your note seems so surreal to me. My Father was diagnosted a brain tumour on June 12th and after 7 weeks and 3 days passed away.
My Father unlike your Dad was very lucky to get his results right after the surgery. Apparently there was a pathologist to look at the sample immediately after it was taken.
Like you Dad, in a very short time, he forgot his phone number, how to use the remote for the TV and even lost. The one thing I keep close to my heart is that he always knew who I was until his last breath.
My Dad had the option of radition but because he was a stage 4, they said it would only buy him about a month and chemo was not an option.
I wish you all the best during this very trying time. All I can say is like you, I was about 2 hours away from my Dad and I left my home and work to go and be with him and that last week we spent together was gold.
Good luck and keep us posted on his progress. |
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| Posted: Wed Sep 02, 2009 4:45 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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It's been a couple weeks on radiation/chemo now and dad seems to be 'holding his own'. His right side weakness is still there and he needs a little direction now and then (forgets and gets lost) but his mind is still there; and knows who we all are still.
4 days ago the doctors reduced his steroids a little and he immediately started to get weakness on the left side. They re-uped the steriods but his weakness is still there. He can walk only with a walker or with assistance.
He's got a little over 2 weeks left of radiation. We're all hoping that the radiation will reduce the tumor so he can have some better quality of life. This is a man who was chopping/stacking wood just months ago and now can barely walk.
Oh well....thought I'd just type here what I was thinking.... |
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| Posted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:17 pm Post subject: Re: Dad has 4 tumors and the biopsy is tomorrow |
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Just another update, for the past week or so dad's been having feet/ankle swelling. Just today they tested his blood levels and said his sodium levels are low (135 I think). So doing a Google search found the term Hyponatremia.
Is this something that is 'normal' due to the cancer? Is this a normal progression as he worsens? Or is he just "lucky"  \
Thanks for all the support here everyone - I hope to be able to return the favor one day... |
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. It does sound like he is doing as well as can be expected. I hope he does have more quality time after the radiation.