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Missing my mother What is this ?

 
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lilley624
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Joined: 19 Mar 2006
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 9:51 pm    Post subject: Missing my mother Reply with quote

This is my first entry. I was a little hesitant to write but I really dont know what else to do. It has been nearly 4 years since my mother passed away from cancer. I was 20 years old when it happened. I still feel like this giant void is inside me. I feel like something is missing and I miss her so much. I know it is selfish and I know she is in a better place, but I cant help but want her here with me. My friends still have thier mothers and it breaks my heart to see them together. I am still so young and with so many things ahead of me-I just wish I could share them with her and we could be there for each other. My childhood is gone. Growing up is hard but will this emptiness ever go away? Will I ever feel better? I cant take much more of this. I feel so alone. I am close to the rest of my family but my syblings both have spouses and children of their own. I just feel alone.
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mousa
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Joined: 10 Feb 2006
Posts: 137
Location: Thailand

PostPosted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 10:27 am    Post subject: Re: Missing my mother Reply with quote

Dear Lilley,

Have been thinking of you all day. Hang in there - you will get this sorted out. You are not alone. You are in my prayers tonight. Let me know how you are feeling tomorrow. Sending you light and love and a big hug.

Val
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missumom
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Joined: 05 Jan 2006
Posts: 65

PostPosted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 5:42 pm    Post subject: Re: Missing my mother Reply with quote

Hi Lilley,

My sincere sympathies to you...I know exactly what difficult times you're going through. I lost my mom to cancer last year and it all happened so fast. She was diagnosed and within a little less than a month, she was gone. Not a day goes by that I don't think of my mom. I miss her soo much Crying or Very sad

You're not being selfish at all...don't be hard on yourself! Although I know my mom's in heaven, I sure wish she never got ill. Sometimes, I can't believe she's really gone.

This forum is a great place to vent out your feelings. Read the entries and you'll realize that there are a lot of people here in the same situation as yourself. You're not alone. Take care...
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