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Hugs to you..... I collected my dads ashes today, after all this time. Still don't know what to do with them. He didn't want interment, he did ask to be scattered, but then what do we have left? I...

I am so sorry for your family's loss... It sounds like he was in a wonderful place when he passed. The breathing.... It's hard for us to hear but I don't think it causes them distress...all I can say...

I cant believe that doctor. It's people giving up on the Patients that makes them give up on themselves. Yes, there will come a time to let him go, but you know well this is not it.... That doctor...

I know where you are right now.... And you have made the right decision. It's extremely hard to care at home. The night my dad went, I had told the nurses I just couldn't cope anymore. All I wanted...

I am sorry... Rarely people do anything to get this disease... Your dad is at peace now x

I am sorry.... To hear your dad cried when he heard hospice... My dad saw the hospice in a negative way to, I think many do, despite the help it gives you. It's understandable isn't it... It means...

You cannot be there 24/7 and you were by his side last weeks when it mattered... Up until then your dad we'd have wanted normality. I had to work and feel guilty about the time I could have spent...

I have not wanted to give away anything that was dads and my mum feels the same. Of course the 'cancer' stuff as gone... But his chair, shaving stuff, clothes are still at my mums, and I feel a...

I believe around 5 years, but can differ. It's not sudden, it's just so tucked away there are no symptoms. My dad got sudden onset diabetes 2 years before and that was one of the first symptoms. I...

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I miss my dad..... I should probably go over to 'coping and support'....
As time has gone on I feel a reluctance to talk about what happened, it feels like its dredging it all up..... I also...

I am so sorry. Your poor dad went through it, ESP with his sickness, take comfort he is now unable to be hurt anymore. He was also lucky enough to have a very loving family and a daughter that stuck...

I am so sorry for your loss. May your mum rest in peace... Hugs to you...

I wish your mum a peaceful passing, from all I read on here and my own experience, the actual passing away is always peaceful. You will know what to say... I told my dad he had a new job to watch...

That's good news, I wish I didn't have to do it... My dad and his only sister died of cancer practically in same area and her son has necrotising pancreatitis, so although we don't strictly meet the...

I am too having this as soon a I get myself together and fill out the forms. I pray you do not have these genes, and good for you for taking positive action, for your family's safety and to help the...

I am sorry may he rest in peace. I know its heartbreaking, but you did all you could and looked after him. You should be proud of yourself, he would be proud of you x

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Your dad, at this point should be having much stronger meds, by injection, or at the very least liquid, not tablets! One because they have difficulty swallowing, two meds are harsh on tummy, when you...

You are goign through the toughest part of the whole nightmare. He will pass away soon, but exactly how long? It depents on each person.. Im sure my dad had a heart attack which brought a swifter end...

My thoughts are with you.... Sorry for this painful loss, it will be hard but take comfort he has no more pain now.... {{{{{Gerber}}}}}}