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    Diagnosed with colon cancer, 25 years old

    Damn it

    I had so many symptoms for the longest time, bleeding in my feces for a good year. I thought, 'nah, not me!". Cancer does NOT run in my family, I self diagnosed anal fissures and went about my life. Every few months Id think I was dying from constipation and cramps.. these cramps would come and go every half hour or so, last only about 5-10 seconds, for about 12 hours (did I mention I thought I was gonna die.. on a scale of one to ten.. id have to say 9 and childbirth being 10). FINALLY went to see a dr.. embarrassment held me back for so long. She was gentle and referred me to a female surgeon, which took three months. Pain and blood was getting worse.. oh my god the blood! Finally made it to the consult and she booked me for a flex sig two months down the road. More blood... more pain. Finally made it to the sig, and two mins in she had colleagues on the phone and I had an emergency colonoscopy two days later. The biopsy from the flex sig came back positive for cancer, as did the markers and the colonoscopy biopsy. F*CK

    Now Im waiting on mri, ultra sounds, getting another sig in three days to measure location, then Im guessing once all the tests and stuff come back, Ill know what stage and what type of surgery Ill be getting.

    My question for you..

    Stage one, does this mean possibly no chemo or radiation? Im hoping for stage one.. Im hoping for minimum surgery, obviously. So instead of scaring myself silly with the 'ifs' and 'hows' of a spreading cancer.. let me wrap my head around best case scenerio first.

    Anyone with experience in any stage and any treatment.. help a girl out? Ill appreciate and respect any advice given. Im in college, live on my own.. will I need to take time off and move out of my apt for stage one?

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    sweets, so sorry about the cancer diagnosis, i will include a url for a website
    http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/p.../Patient/page5
    this will tell you about the stages and the treatments
    not all websites are truthful, i usually pick the gov ones
    don't over read or stress, hopefully the dr stages this soon and gets you information and plan on the treatment
    always go for the best case scenario, you can always make a difference plan of attack.
    will pray for the best possible news for you. God bless

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    Sweets, really sorry that you appear to have joined our club.

    The link that mojo gave is useful but if you are anything like I was when I found out about my rectal cancer you will find it hard to take in things because there is just so much to come to terms with.

    The first news you will get about the staging is after the scan. Basically that will tell if it has spread into any other organs - if it has then that will generally be known as stage 4.

    If you get the all clear from the scan (I had a CT scan), ie no spread to other organs, then I was told that they find it difficult to give any real information on whether it is stage 1 (contained within the wall of the colon), 2 (communicating with blood vessels) or 3 (spread to 1 or more lymph glands) until after the operation.

    Unfortunately it is the waiting for information that is almost the hardest part. I know that my mind tended to oscillate between anticipating the worst and hoping for the best.

    The good thing is that you are young and hopefully fit and that will give you the best chance to fight this thing no matter what the staging.

    Hoping for the best and my thoughts are with you.

    Nick
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    Thank you, yes Im young and strong, Ive gone thru the crying and feeling sorry for myself, Ive worried myself over the possibilities and now, I just go day by day and tell myself Im gonna be alright.

    I had a ct scan the same day as my first sig scope, it showed some spots on m liver but both the gastroenterologist and my surgeon seemed sure the spots on my liver could just be veins. Of course the MRI will give a better detail so Im waiting on that before freaking out. The waaaaait is horrrrrrible! Ive lost a few lbs, but thats gotta be just stress. My appetite is alright, it takes less to fill me, but Im always hungry so Im always eating

    Thank you for the link, I have of course been searching online for a year on and off.. scaring myself, and convincing myself its just this or that.. not cancer. Ive had time to come to terms with the fact there is something seriously wrong with me.. no one bleeds that much and fools themselves into thinking its normal. Another question.. how much blood is safe to lose? I have bm about five times a day now.. little ones, big ones.. all different, liquid to hard, but all covered and mixed with blood. I get dizzy and weak. Stress or should I be mentioning this to my dr? Out of all the drs Ive seen, none of them wanted to look at my poop (lol, all embarrassment gone, can you tell?)

    The laproscopy surgery, my surgeon is asking a collegue of hers to assist, whats the healing period time for that. I need to decide soon if Im giving my notice or not

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sweets View Post
    Damn it



    Stage one, does this mean possibly no chemo or radiation? Im hoping for stage one.. Im hoping for minimum surgery, obviously. So instead of scaring myself silly with the 'ifs' and 'hows' of a spreading cancer.. let me wrap my head around best case scenerio first.

    Anyone with experience in any stage and any treatment.. help a girl out? Ill appreciate and respect any advice given. Im in college, live on my own.. will I need to take time off and move out of my apt for stage one?
    First and foremost, I am NOT a doctor. Your doctor can and will give you better advice than me or anyone on an internet forum. But since you asked....In my experience, radiation and chemo are almost certain for just about any type of cancer. I know that sucks, but radiation shrinks the tumor and after surgery, chemo cleans up (we hope) any little cancer cells running around in your body. SOME types of cancer do not require radiation/chemo, but I don't know that any of these commonly occur in the colon/rectum. For example, on my sig line, you will notice that I had a carcinoid tumor in my lung several years back. Totally different beastie than the adnocarcinoma the found in my backside a few years later, and no radiation or chemo. Until the rectal tumor came along, I joked that I had the best kind of cancer to get if you just HAVE to get cancer. Me and my big mouth, eh?
    The good news is that as long as they are talking surgery, they are going for the cure. Surgery is how you cure colorectal cancer, radiation and chemo only buy time. It's if they tell you surgery is not contemplated that you get to worry, because that means the cancer has spread and the horse is out of the barn, and you are now playing in the big leagues. It's rarely the first tumor that gets you, it's the stinking recurrence, because that usually comes back in more than one spot.
    Good luck. Hoping that you have a successful course of treatment the next few months. If I have any other advice, it's to go do something you really, really like to do. That both cheers you up and gets your mind off your troubles. For me, when I get all tensed up, I drive up the canyon, park at the end of the road, and start walking. The view from the mountaintop or at least a high pass tends to lend a little perspective. IMHO, YMMV.
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    DX with Lung Carcinoid Tumor 12/04
    Double Lobectomy 3/05
    DX with Rectal Cancer 12/26/07 Merry Christmas!
    Radiation/Chemo 1/08
    Rectal Resection 3/08, permanent colostomy. Stage 2C
    More chemo 5/08
    Chemo fries bone marrow, 9 days in hospital isolation 7/08
    Recurrence confirmed in pelvic region 12/09
    Tumor radiated with Cyberknife treatment 3/10
    Recurrence/metastasis in pelvis/abdomen 11/10
    Xeloda/Avastin 12/10 to 01/13
    Progression to lungs found 1/13
    Erbitux 01/13 to 01/14
    Acute renal failure, six days in hospital, all chemo stopped for now, 11/13
    Restarted Erbitux, lower dose 12/13
    Kidney function dips again, chemo suspended again. 2/14
    New chemo regimen of low-dose Irrenotecan started 4/14.
    Further progression into lungs, chemo halted, referred to Huntsman Cancer Center for possible clinical trials.
    Lung biopsy confirms that nodules are metastatic, enrolled in clinical trial at Huntsman. 11/14
    Sounds like a lot of fun, doesn't it?

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    Sweets, I'm not sure which country you are in. Here in the UK I went through the National Health Service and right from the first diagnosis they had a support team that was dedicated to answering the sort of questions you are asking. The great thing was that they could look at my file and give me advice based on their experience of how long it would take to recover etc. I was viewed as being young at age 56 and consistently beat their predictions so you too could take your own view based in what advice you get.

    I had full open surgery with part of my rectum and half of my colon being removed. I was in hospital for 6 days then went home. For the first week at home I was fully mobile but spent a lot of time on the sofa watching tv. After 2 weeks I was doing my work from home on the computer and telephone, after 4 weeks I was driving and after 6 weeks I was back riding my horses. Of course there were various visits to the doctor for stitches removal and back to the hospital for review and I needed help with that.

    My tumour was staged as 2 after the surgery and I am now on 6 months of capcitabine chemo which are pills that I take at home. It was 2 weeks after the operation when I got the results of the staging because it takes that time for the biopsy results (well it takes 10 days then they reviewed my case with the team before telephoning with the results). After the operation the surgeon will be able to say whether the tumour was taken out cleanly (ie they think they got it all) but I was told that they cant say much more than that from just looking at it. I went back to the hospital after 4 weeks for a review and it was at that meeting that they discussed with me whether chemo was appropriate. I started the chemo after 6 weeks when my body was pretty well recovered.

    The side effects of my chemo vary from person to person but I am more or less carrying on as normal with no noticeable side effects. Here in the UK I would say that generally no chemo after the operation with stage 1 and it depends from surgeon to surgeon whether they give chemo for stage 2. Stage 3 will always have chemo post op. Depending on the reults of your scan and the size of the tumour, some surgeons will give chemo before the operation to shrink the tumour and make it easier for them to get it out cleanly.

    Your journey will be different as we all are but hopefully with your operation being quicker to recover from and you being young and fit you will beat what I did.

    I hope this helps but I would emphasize that I suggest that your first port of call for your questions is to the support team that are looking after you.

    Nick
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    Sweets, I forgot to say that right from the word go my surgeon said that if you were told that you had to have cancer then he would pick colon cancer because of how treatable and (hopefully) curable it is.

    Nick

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    Sweets,

    Just wanted you to know that you are not alone. I was diagnosed at age 26. The only family cancer history I have is a maternal aunt with breast cancer and my own personal history. This forum has been a great source of support for me. I hope that you will also find support here. Knoxville, TN has a cancer community that has weekly and monthly activities such as arts and crafts and cooking classes for anyone affected by cancer. The cancer community also has group meetings and a staff psychologist. Chances are that your city also has similar programs. The cancer community has helped me along the way. Even though I have a wonderful support network, sometimes I needed to talk to other cancer survivors. Keep us updated when you learn more about your situation. I hope that through sharing our experiences we can all help each other to keep living.

    Sarah
    May 1988 acute lymphoblastic leukemia (2 yrs chemo & radiation)
    Sept 2009 papillary thyroid cancer (thyroid removal & radioactive iodine)
    Sept 2009 colon cancer stage IIIC (removal of sigmoid colon & resection)
    Oct 2009-May 2010 FOLFOX6
    July 2010 stage IV colon cancer, irinotecan & avastin
    Dec 2010-July 2011 avastin maintenance
    Sept 2011 tumor removal involving small bowel resections
    Nov 2011-April 2012 resume irinotecan
    May 29 2012 begin radiation treatments 15 total
    current age: 28

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    I also wanted to let you know you are not alone, I was diagnosed this year at 32, stage 3.

    One thing you may want to ask as they don't radiate young women too much, ask questions about fertility if you need to do chemo and radiation. The first radiologist couldn't answer my questions, but went I went to Dana Farber they told me the radiation would ruin my uterus. So even if I moved my ovaries, I would not be able to carry a child. Hopefully your tumor is at a very early stage and you don't have to worry about that, but just wanted to give you a heads up on what I was told.

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    Wow.. thank you for your advice. I would never have thought of side effects and damage. Ive had one MRI, Im getting another one on monday, then an endoscope on wednesday. By then, my drs will have a better idea of what stage Im in. Im hoping and praying its early, but Ive had symptoms for a few years and strong symptoms for a year. I try not to think of it.. I found a support group that meets once a week for colorectal cancer.. Im really looking forward to that. I cry alot.. but Im always alone.. I sure could use a hug.

    Thanks everyone for being supportive.. Ill update when I find out results from all these tests Im getting.

 

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