I have to say this is pretty much the most horrific experience of my life and Iím a trauma nurse/sonographer. Watching your loved one suffer has just been an absolute nightmare. I want to tell each and every one of you - you are just so incredibly strong. My thoughts and deepest condolences are with all of you. Hoping to get my aunts pain under control- the nights are getting really hard. Hospice upped her meds but nothing seems to be working. Iím so worried about my mother having to watch her baby sister go through this. Thank you for sharing your tips and the caring article.