I have found out my "little" brother has terminal throat cancer. Sadly, I have not seen him for 38 years because of family problems. I have put my hand out many times but he is very angry at all of us. I think I know why but that's beside the point. He was always a very heavy smoker. I have missed him all these years very much, my only brother. It is my prayer he gets in touch with me but he has made it clear he does not want that. So I can only pray for him. He is 64 now but will always be the cute little brother I remember.